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There’s a battle brewing for love, the good life and the hearts of black men. Who will win? The answers are broken down between the pages of this how-to guide in 5 basic steps. Without apology or pulling punches, Small reveals to single sisters everywhere why the other girl is making sweet love to the brothers who should be their boyfriends, while 47% of black women will never wear a wedding dress.

Using what she calls the FIVE B’S for Becoming a Better Black Woman, Small rescues single sisters from dating doom by outlining the emotional and psychological challenges that they must overcome to be at their best. Like the strictest drill sergeant or tough love sister-friend, the author coaches black women on how to:

  •  Overcome angry black woman BIAS
  •   Fight BRAINWASHING indoctrination
  •   Maximize BEAUTY as a strategic asset
  •   Release and unload emotional BAGGAGE
  •   Be BETTER mentally, physically and emotionally

Best described as a relationship boot-camp guide for getting yours, the book is equal parts as funny as it is infuriating. Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love & Life successfully gives black women the one thing they need: strategies for winning at love, life and everything in-between.

About the Author: While pursuing a degree in psychology, Stephanie Small discovered a love for writing and an affinity for giving good advice. A former social work counselor, she is currently a certified trainer and college lecturer with a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Master’s degree in the Arts. A woman of the world (Canadian-bred with West Indian roots, now living and loving in New York), Stephanie works as a Professional-Development Coach and Training Strategist specializing in Adult Education. Her life’s goal is to educate individuals on how to overcome their fears and discover their own personal power.

Stephanie is known as the Super Sistah in the Blogosphere.

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People Are TALKING About #BGG2W – By Stephanie Small:

“In race-riddled America, love has become a battlefield. Suit up, charge it and read a dating guide with true grit. De rigueur for the black girl on the dating scene, Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love & Life is one part The Rules and two parts for breaking them.”

 DEBORAH GREGORY, author of Catwalk and The Cheetah Girls


“A Hot Mess is what the relationship situation is like for Black Americans and no one knows it better than Stephanie Small; providing hilarious honesty and tantalizing truths she lays out your game plan like a Football coach in the crucial last quarter. The Bill Belichick of Booty, her book reads like a virtual training camp for getting yours.

RAJEN PERSAUD, Author of Why Black Men Love White Women


“Reading the Black Girl’s Guide is like hearing from a good friend you trust for advice. She wants the best for you but won’t hesitate to tell you the truth so you can get what you really want—you win!”

 —Author NASHIEQA WASHINGTON of yourblackfriend.com

“I picked up and read Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love & Life from cover-to-cover in a single night. The contents made me gasp, shake my head and laugh out loud. If you want a boot camp approach to dating, then pick up this bold, brash and brutal relationship and how-to guide.”

 YVONNE HARRIOTT, Author of Cat ‘N Mouse and Hide ‘N Seek  

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