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Hate or Hashtag?

A white friend, who I like and admire, recently posted a picture on her Facebook page of a police officer holding a sign saying #AllLivesMatter, more specifically, #PoliceLivesMatter. Ahhhh, duh. I consider this person well-read and in touch with the world in which we live in, so I was disappointed that she would post something […]

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Becoming Badu

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I was told recently that my image, my profile and my persona needed a makeover, a do-over and a facelift. My personal brand needed to be more positive, more chill and much more Zen. It was suggested that I emulate more popular writers and try to be a tad more upbeat. It was good advice […]

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Black History Month Book Sale – BGG2W

For the rest of the month of February read the self-help guide, Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love and Life for just .99 cents! Author Stephanie Small celebrates black love, black lives and black history for the month of February and every month throughout the year! Get your copy today! Available at Amazon, Barnes […]

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The Bluest Eye ~ Redux

Bitches wanna be white so bad. Was one white Instagrammer’s response to Tameka “Tiny” Harris’ (T.I’s wife) new permanent eye color change. Is this true? That’s the question I’d like to ask my sisters of color. To the pigment changers (bleachers), the nose straighteners, the silky weave wearers with locks that graze formerly cocoa colored […]

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Nappy Natural?

When a relative of mine (you know who you are) is being mean, provoking or just being a straight up be-yatch, she likes to remind me that my newly natural hair isn’t silky. Remind me in a Denzel-Training-Day voice that Joan (i.e. Tracee Ellis Ross hair) has nothing on me. She likes to gently, not […]

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NEW BOOK RELEASE ~ Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love & Life (Retitled 2nd Edition)

NEW BOOK RELEASE – Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love & Life (Retitled 2nd Edition) New Look, Same Attitude. If Love is War, May the Best Woman Win! There’s a battle brewing for love, the good life, and the hearts of black men. Who will win? The answers are broken down between the pages […]

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Race & Relationships ~ DU’s Conversation Series & the Super Sistah

Loved the book, Don’t Let The White Girl Win? By fan popular demand, check out the upcoming reprint, now: Black Girl’s Guide To Winning At Love & Life coming ~ October 2013. Same great book, awesome makeover. See new cover image BGG2W here. For fans of the book and Race and Relationship conversations, check out the […]

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Dating The Do

For black women, getting our hair done is a process. The undertaking can take hours and in some extreme cases, days. To tame and coerce our hair into a style that is acceptable by society’s standards requires a sacrifice of time and money. If a man, any man, plans to date a black woman he […]

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Heart Healthy Hatred: Cheerios

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I know what you’re thinking. Considering I have a book out entitled, Don’t Let The White Girl Win, I shouldn’t be offended by the backlash over the interracial Cheerios commercial that has resulted in so much viral hate. Who am I to take exception to those who are negative and nasty towards the featured couple […]

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In the Army Now: Sergeants & Soldiers

“Black women naturally have flavor. We’re spicy like a scorching pot of gumbo simmering on the stove with the flame turned up too high.” Quote from the book: Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love & Life: Dating, Relationship & Self-Help for Single Sisters Mom is the Sergeant and General in many families and her […]

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Old As*

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A dear friend of mine recently celebrated his 40th year on the earth with a big, splashy birthday bash. For someone who remembers sixteen clearly that number seems huge. It hovers around the corner taunting me with the knowledge that I will eventually be that age in the next 10, 5, 4, 2 years, months, […]

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Dating Dot-Com

Guess what, Super? I’ve found a man! Word? (I love when I get a chance to say that.) Yup, he’s good between the sheets, he’s kind and I think we’re on our way to being in love. Your man-less drought has come to an end. Thank you, Lord! (She’ll now buy a lot less batteries.) […]

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