I’m sorry, so sorry, that I was such a fool. Brenda Lee’s song is sung plaintively with the tone and tenor of overall remorse. These days; however, in an era of overwhelming hatred and intolerance, people, after saying or doing some real hateful sh*t, now have the get out of jail free loophole called the […]
Tags: Amandla Stenberg, Andy Cohen, apologizing, black women, cultural appropriation, Kylie Jenner, Saying Sorry
The Caitlyn Controversy
I don’t usually write or talk about reality TV stars, cause well, I just don’t. Putting the spotlight on people who crave the spotlight seems like a waste of time so I just refrain. While I don’t want to paint all reality TV folks with the same brush, I’ll still state with confidence and conviction […]
Tags: Bruce Jenner, Caitlyn Jenner, call me caitlyn, Hero, Jenner, Kardashians, LGBT, REALITY TV, trans, Transexual, transgender
Black Girls Rock?
With shame and regret I admit that when it aired the first time I missed it. I forgot it was on. I didn’t watch it as I should have but that doesn’t mean I don’t have a comment on the commentary floating around the internet pertaining to the show Black Girl Rock. Lord, help me […]
Tags: BET, black girl magic, Black Girls Rock, black women, Confidence, feminism, Girl Power, Music, Self-Confidence, Sisterhood, Strength
The Bluest Eye ~ Redux
Bitches wanna be white so bad. Was one white Instagrammer’s response to Tameka “Tiny” Harris’ (T.I’s wife) new permanent eye color change. Is this true? That’s the question I’d like to ask my sisters of color. To the pigment changers (bleachers), the nose straighteners, the silky weave wearers with locks that graze formerly cocoa colored […]
Tags: #BGG2W, african american women, body image, Brightocular, Eye color change, icy grey, self-esteem, T.I, Tameka Harris, the bluest eye, Tiny
To Catch a Cougar
The Super is not a fan of bear cubs, puppies, baby rabbits or anything requiring training, constant attention and care, but whoa Nelly! Recently I saw a picture of J.LO and her boy toy Casper Smart and I had to do a double take. When Jenny from the Block was with Mark Anthony she looked […]
Tags: Confidence, Cougar, Dating, Jennifer Lopez, Love, Relationships, Sex, Super-Heroes
the Super Sistah remembers Whitney Houston (Vlog)
Can marrying the wrong person ruin your life? The Masked Crusader, the Super Sistah discusses her new blog post, Death by Ex. While reflecting on the death of Whitney Houston she asks her readers whether loving the wrong man can be a woman’s downfall? Post a response here. R.I.P Whitney, we’ll miss you.
Tags: Black Love, black women, Bobby Brown, Break-ups, Dating, Death by Ex, Family, God, Marriage, Men, Spiritual, Super-Heroes, Whitney Houston death, Whitney Houston funeral
Death by Ex
Can the wrong man ruin your life? Yeah, he can! Recently Pop Diva Whitney Houston went home to meet her Lord. The lyrics, “I get so emotional, baby, every time I think of you” was set on replay when I heard. I don’t pretend to know what goes on in the personal lives of celebrities, […]
Tags: Black Love, black women, Bobby Brown, Break-ups, God, Marriage, Men, Music, Relationships, Spiritual, Super-Heroes, Whitney Houston death, Whitney Houston funeral
Fake Me, Real Who?
Without shame, guilt or remorse I admit that the Super does not always practice what she preaches. I’m not as positive as I seem. I’m not the best black friend everyone needs. I fall short of being the über confident and uplifting woman I claim to be. In person one might be a little surprised […]
Tags: Bad Habits, Fighting Fear, Identity, Iyanla Vanzant, Oprah, Strength, Trust